Acoustic of Love by “ME“

“Celebrity House” Bangalore                                                                                                         Date: 28.IV.2013

Being loneliness in life is a pain which kills us like a slow poison and these days I am addicted to take it. It gives me an internal peace for a time being but once the effect ends then feel again like a solitaire /solitude. During my college days, I always prefer to take rest in dark room where I used to share my loneliness along with music and that time often think life is always beautiful for all mankind and when applied this concept on me then think my life would be most beautiful. My all wishes and dreams would be true but now I think how innocent I was? Life is not like that as we understand it's a chain of ups and downs and these ups and downs always teach us. Since beginning I always keep desire to have a good female friend which help me to motivate towards life. When I feel personally alone that time she sit near to me and ask the cause of get tense and clear all my hurdles through her valuable suggestion. I always seek a platform where able to exchange feelings and every time feel loneliness.  In my want list, always kept love on top priority but at other side my life always let down my impulse.

Most of the times observe why this is always with me. Why I don’t have girl friend? In today’s cosmopolitan culture, every alternate person having a friend whether is it he or she and all are indulge in love but the type of love is vary on person to person. 

1. Few love him or her, because they want to enjoy lavish life and this could be done by this way. 

2. Few love him or her for the sake of competition. (Ex. School/College/Workplace)

3. Few love him or her only for lust and such people having its own principle.

4. Few love him or her only because they are made for each other, without any ego and this called "ishqwala love" 

For me LOVE is a very respectable word and gets regret when I see some luckiest person who blessed by love and after relation deteriorated love because of some own silly means.

As per my understanding about this subject, love should be unconditional. Couples should have a feeling of devotion for each other and this bond should be transparent. Once this combination will come in our life then damn sure will be called luckiest human being of this earth. But in today’s scenario people take this as a time pass that's why perception towards love is changing day by day. I am always aficionado of simplicity that’s why always keep a wish whenever I get engaged with someone then always want to prefer platonic relationship. When people come and discuss me about love then first question they ask me - How many girlfriends you have? And I reply no one till now, then they get laugh and ask why so and in revert I get back them and tell, want only a true friend not a time pass. Again they give a nod and tell “for a time being or after marriage it's ok but for present at least keep some option"

So this is the mentality of today’s youth. They are not aware how beautiful love is? It’s an eternal beauty and without surviving this beauty means most beautiful chapters of life which is gifted by nature has not added in your life. Most of the times think why this mindset is changing and internally get answer through some daily life example.  Few cases are here:

1.   Love someone to utmost limit and at last he/she doesn't pay equal contribution as you want from him/her then person get shattered and apply some wrong path.

2. A long relationship between two souls where both love each one delicately and due to some consequences love break down then person change his mind set and adopt wrong path.

3. One side love, can say it's beyond our imagination and it's applicable to any object likewise older/oldest/smaller/smallest/colour/religion/relation/society.

Above mentioned points are enough to describe how a person gets changed. When I was working in HCL that time one of my companion was completely fall in love and this was not a single side love. Both couple loves each other from last 3 to 4 years. They had a good mutual understanding, shared all ups and downs together in a nutshell can say they made for each other. But after some time due to some family reason boy left that place and before leaving give assurance to girl, he will come back as will get time. After some year when boy calls her beloved via phone then she started ignore him. One and two times it was Ok but every time this happened then boy got something is going wrong and meanwhile boy lost his parents. Now boys was get tensed because he has to look after family but he doesn't share anything to girlfriend why because boy has a deep respect for that girl. Boy was conscious, she will get disturb and this could harm her study. Time was passing, once that boy visited that city and wants to meet his lover. On phone girl gives accent and decided to meet at secret rendezvous and both met but during chinwag boy feels she is not pleased to see him. Constrained posture are enough to say about her and it seems like someone has forced to come and that's why she is bound to meet. Boy tried to investigate and one day he founds, she loves someone else. Boy gets shattered because he was completely dedicated for her and other side girl also understands the importance of that guy. After so many conversations, one day girl gives a proposal to remain in my life as a friend and boy is still in dilemma should he accept her as a friend or should he forget whatever happened in past.

When think about this matter then remember one great line which is enough to say above incident:-

“If you love somebody, set them free. If they return, they were always yours. If they don't, they never were." 

Now when I discuss to that boy why I am not blessed by love then he replied “you are very luckiest that's why you are not fall in love" and indirectly his words giving severe ticking off to her.

Here we can see, how his mind set change and now that boy gives advice to each one love is not good thing and if you want just partner then use any one and get time pass and at last leave. In this case study which is based on my colleague’s life experience justified both points and exhibits why mind sets are getting changed?

In this context, I don’t know who is culprit but want to express my feelings through this blog: Only very rare people get such an opportunity to give one hand to other hand so don't put kibosh on such a beautiful close communion because once you lose this bond then life time won’t get a blissful life and it's universal truth if you lost diamond then ready to be reprimand. I am still seeking an opportunity to give my hand in someone's beautiful hand and that hand hold my hand so tight up to my last breath. This is a just only common wish which is carried by every human being but the actual feeling which is compulsory required that very rarely people have and those have not unable to understand such pious bond. Thus, only get some negative bombshell every day and it demonstrates still need to be enlightened all and sundry. Love is widely respected by this universe because it connect all human shall and this joint understanding has become a necessity of today era. Every particle whether it’s a human, animal, nature, stars, weather, all are attached to another particle and this entire chain system called an emotional society where everybody has an emotion for his/her dearest that's why ancient philosopher Plato defined love in his own way-"At the touch of  love everyone becomes a poet." (Plato)

Sometimes think how intangible entities could be so strong but it’s a universal truth that’s why denoted as an indestructible power. If we glance in all religious book and find the focal conclusion then get different languages, cultures, values, ethics, principles and many other theories but at last get same voice from all, and this exhibit love is endless. It does not come under any religion, racism; system. It comes after god. It can’t be bought; sold, exchanged this comes inherently. Love has no territory, no borders, as I have mentioned in above paragraph then why we all try to find discrimination. Need to be growing up like a secular this will prevail such influence which is considered as an adverse for society. Being an optimistic, keeping a hope to this world; change attitude and reconstruct our system so coming root will be beyond to this system and bring such dynamic changes where can imagine this planet full of joie de vivre.

Still not engaged with any one that’s why understand the importance of these four words in human life. And these words are a combination of compassion, attachment, caring and devotion. It is a magical feeling and having an enormous power that can mould our life and will change your path which meets to the route of prosperity.

The purpose of writing on this controversial topic; to bring awareness among youths because love blooms firstly in life at young age so young get chance to taste/feel it and after sometimes how it springs in their life that is also depend on character, personal behavior and your upbringing as well so it's upon you how you take it and implement. Our one negative action drive your message to other youths because someone from us will be celebrity in coming time so always incline yourself for good things and this habit will  inspire others also and definitely it would have a good effective and learn-able lesson for all of us.  Now putting my pen down and ending it with some beautiful lines about LOVE:

 We're born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we're not alone. (anonymous)

                                                                                                                                                             
                                                                                                                                                             (The End)

                                                                                                                                                       Written by: C.B.Rao